Listening people's advise? Following your idols footsteps? Looking up to someone? Well those makes you what you are now. Your aims, your motives creates you! But surely you had been feeling sad before because of what people said about you.
There are always ups and down in life. But do not let life pull you down! What people say does not really covered things up. They might say the correct thing, but chances are they might not. They have no first hand information on whats happening. All they see is the outside but never the inside.
Taking their advise is like doing a project. You can start by gathering information on others, but never to lose sight of your own project * being yourself*. Even if someone did some very good stuff in some of the processess , it might not be suitable to you. Therefore my friends, think wisely. Know what you want, know what you do not want. Just be yourself. There is no prize for the best copy-cats. But there is the ultimate glory for you being yourself.
